February, 2008


24
Feb 08

When Owning Shit Goes Wrong

I have been packing solidly for two days now, although I did do a bit three nights ago as well. So far I have packed 23 boxes, with an estimated 9 more to go. This does not include the rest of the stuff the movers will be picking up: 3-seater couch and ottoman, armchair, dining table and 4 chairs, 2 bookcases, rug, coffee table, desk, dressing table, queen bed frame and mattress, ironing board, 2 drying racks, 2 mirrors, and 4 deck chairs. That does also not include the rather large suitcase I am taking on the plane, my camera gear, and my cat. That is all entirely too much stuff for one person.

During my overseas travels I managed to keep my entire life’s possessions down to two suitcases. That was it. Every time I moved I sold or gave everything away. Now I’m a little older, less hesitant to move countries “permanently” at the drop of a hat, and less willing to give up the couch I love sitting on so much, the rug I searched all over town for, the white china dinner sets, the white towelling sets. I have become the narrator from Fight Club and all I need is a massive gas explosion to set me free from my life of material ownership.

But sans explosion, I am stuck here in my house, wrapping things in newspaper, washing dishes, clearing cupboards, and cursing having all the things I wished I had when I went flatting again with not much more than a suitcase of clothes two years ago. I have one day to finish. With all this work left, I might as well give up and go back to watching True Hollywood Stories for a little bit longer.


23
Feb 08

I Am Your New Bicycle

And every internet meme ever.


23
Feb 08

Moving, Again

On Tuesday I am once again packing my life into boxes and moving cities. This time, Auckland. Again, I am taking Goblin. The movers will come and take my life’s possessions (although I have managed to collect more possessions in the two years I’ve been back in Wellington than the five years I was overseas) and then Gobbles and I will catch a plane. She is such a seasoned traveller. People often remark that she has lived in more cities and countries than most humans. This is true.

In a week’s time I start my new job at a software company in Ponsonby. I will have moved into my new flat in Grey Lynn. The wankicity of having purchased a brand new Vespa with an Italian-designed Momo helmet in 2006 will be realised when I then scoot over to my boyfriend’s house, to Richmond Road Cafe, to the supermarket, to the video store on Ponsonby Road.

In a week’s time, I will already be missing my sister and her children (6 and 5-months, both absolutely adorable) and her daily phone calls to me at work that always start with her saying, “Hi. It’s me. What are you doing?” and me replying, “Working!” will cease as these will now be toll calls. I will miss having weeknightly dinners with my flatmates in front of 72″ of Shortland Street. I will miss games nights with Jake and Carly, because they are silly and make me laugh lots. I will miss chin-stroking at gigs with Cole. I will miss the good days in Wellington, where the saying goes that you can’t beat it.

This aside, I am also really quite excited. I love going to new places, especially places where I don’t know every second person and their cousin I went to school with. I am looking forward to not having quite as aching joints in winter (yes, I really am getting old), I am looking forward to rain that doesn’t fall sideways, I am looking forward to the thousands of new cafes and restaurants I get to experience. And I am most definitely looking forward to having a boyfriend I see more than once every fortnight.

I will never be Just Another Fucking Aucklander, as they say. I will always be from Wellington, and Wellington will always be my home, a place I know like the back of my hand. But Auckland will soon be my sixth home, after Wellington, Austin, Houston, Manchester, and Antwerp. And I’ll definitely continue to make it south of the Bombay Hills and beyond.


14
Feb 08

Happy Love Day

Almost a year ago I met an amazing guy called Duncan and fell in love. It was like nothing I had ever experienced before, and I was completely head over heels. I remember the first time I realised I was in love with him as clear as it was yesterday; lying in his bed next to him watching him look at me, trying to take a mental photograph of his beautiful eyes (greenish/blue-gray with yellow around the pupil) and thinking to myself how wonderful he was and how he made me feel like no one had ever before. I felt like my heart was quite literally going to explode in my chest. It took some time for me to get the courage up to tell him how I felt, but it wasn’t hard because I was sure he felt the same about me.

The last year has truly been the best year of my life, and I have never been so happy. Sometimes I feel like I have to pinch myself to check that I am not having some super awesome romantic dream after watching a stupid and cheesy Hollywood rom-com. In the past year we have:

  • Danced to Shapeshifter outdoors on the first weekend we met, followed by another time, and then another time
  • Been chased by rabid Tongan dogs while riding pushbikes
  • Gone on a surprise weekend away to a secluded bach, courtesy of Duncan
  • Visited the biggest tree in New Zealand
  • Introduced each other to our families with no dramatic consequences
  • Travelled to a 5-day drum and bass festival for New Years where Duncan DJed, requiring me to wake at 5am, which I did because I love him and his lush beats
  • Day-walked the start of the Abel Tasman track
  • Seen a whale
  • Conducted a failed Tongan kava ceremony in the bathroom of our fale on Fafa Island
  • Gone shopping for jeans together no less than 28 times
  • Taken photos of each other “levitating” while jumping on a trampoline, resulting in me acquiring a bung knee
  • Become frequent flyers and professional travellers
  • Quite obviously danced to lots of drum and bass together

I have also become completely smitten. I have had so much fun, and can’t wait for all the fun 2008 will bring. Baboo, you are the best thing to ever happen to me. Happy Valentine’s Day!